Excerpts from past columns written for the Hamakua Times and for the Hawaii Tribune Herald...many years ago
The rituals:
In the last few of years I have noticed that I am spending less time with the hustle and bustle associated with the Holidays, but really enjoying them more. I think a lot has to do with our making most of the gifts we share with family, friends and neighbors, rather than running all over the place trying to buy something, anything, just so we can cross a name off our shopping list. The act of giving something you have made means so much more, since the recipient can see that time and care went into the conceiving and creation of the gift.

(photo: gift baskets for friends included all of the 'fixings' for a pumpkin, cranberry, & pecan sweet bread loaf, plus the recipe)
We work so hard to get ready for Christmas that by the time it gets here we are exhausted. Then Christmas comes and goes in a flash and there is the let down feeling that normally follows. I like the idea of observing the old fashioned “Twelve Days of Christmas”, to be able to stretch the Holiday for a few days, rather than one. One way this could be done is to hold some of the presents back and give out one per day. Open it, savor it, and enjoy it fully, before opening the next.
Another custom I enjoy very much is keeping an Advent Calendar. One year I made one myself by gluing the bottoms of 25 little gift-wrapped boxes (only the lids were wrapped) unto a green felt covered board. At the start of each day, a little box was opened and a token gift found inside; a little storybook, a jump rope, a spinning top, an ornament, etc. The box designated for the 25th had a tiny little Nativity set ensconced in it. My children thoroughly enjoyed opening each “day box” and the build-up toward Christmas Day was made gradually.
When I was growing up in Cuba I considered myself very lucky indeed. Since my mother is American, we received gifts from Santa Claus on Christmas Day and since we lived in a country that observed the Epiphany, or Twelve Days of Christmas, we received gifts again on January 6th, brought by the Three Kings!
The colors:

(photo: who says tropical flowers can't be used for Christmas?)
Some of you might question what do thoughts about decorating your home and a food column have in common, but for me the two go hand in hand, especially during the Christmas Holidays.
Recently a friend in Florida shared an item that appeared in The Free Lance-Star newspaper of Fredericksburg, Virginia, about herbs and greenery traditionally used for the Holidays. Mac Saphir, an Extension agent with the State of Virginia Cooperative who wrote the article says,
"Holly, spruce, fir and mistletoe have long been the traditional plants of the holidays".
He goes on to identify several other plants that have been long associated with the holidays. Of all the plants he mentioned, only two can be found growing in our islands.
The article started me thinking about how we all adapt and use what is available around us for decorating our homes.
We do grow some pines and certain types of cedars and at certain elevations even holly will grow, but of course, due to availability, most of these are not as popular here as they are in the mainland and most of our Christmas trees are imported.
For many years a friend has been very generous letting us top Portuguese cedars in her property. If the tops are skimpy, we wire a few trunks together to round out the tree. Since we first came to live in Hawaii it has been our own tradition to decorate the tree with little clear lights, fresh red anthuriums and top it off with sprays of golden popcorn orchids. All my mainland friends think it very exotic but some ask if we don't miss the pines, holly and mistletoe, which they use for the holiday.

(photo: Portuguese cedar, three trunks tied together to fill in the tree, decorated with fresh, live anthuriums and popcorn orchids for the starburst)
Last year I used long branches of rosemary from our own herb garden to make a large and very fragrant wreath for our hostess on Christmas Day. Boughs of aromatic silver dollar eucalyptus, that are grown right here on the Hamakua Coast, branches of Norfolk Island pines and even ironwood trees with their cute tiny pinecones are also appropriate, long lasting and fragrant when brought into the house.

(photo: Christmas arrangement using locally found flowers and greens)
Other long lasting blooms, which can be used in holiday arrangements, are the red torch gingers, birds of paradise and golden heliconias. Magnolia leaves and pods can be found in some yards in our area and I also like to use the `bud ends' of Loquat branches. Even the dried seedpods of the woodrose can be intertwined into wreaths, garlands and other decorations.
Besides the cornucopia of fresh produce available, we are very fortunate that our Hilo Farmer's Market is teeming with exuberantly colored fresh tropical flowers which we can use for our own Holiday decorations.

(photo: taken at the Kino'ole Farmers Market when I was doing a demo on making a Tropical Fruit Ambrosia)
If you are a malihini who is still not used to celebrating Christmas in an island setting, and thinks you need snow for the Holidays, look around you… you will be pleasantly surprised at how beautiful a tropical Hawaiian Christmas can be.

(photo: friends Gail & Nancy, picking greens so we could make our Christmas wreaths)

(photo: Christmas wreath using native materials growing in the wild)